The only thing really stopping you from achieving is your own ideas around yourself and your desires. Know that who you are is exactly who you were meant to be. Every single experience you go through teaches you valuable lessons to grow and love more and more and more. Not just exterior to yourself but within yourself.
Finding that love within yourself can sometimes feel like the hardest thing in the world but the only thing that creates it to be hard is you constantly telling yourself its hard and that there is something wrong with you.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you, you were made in the eyes of God which is in perfection, only your ego will tell you something different.
Use your ego to guide you to empowerment not to stump you in disapproval of all that you are.
Rise and shine and shine brightly in all your glory sharing all that you are.