Thoughts go very far, we are sure that you have already noticed that when you are flowing, calm and happy everything around you seems to feel the same and yet when you are having a bad day everything around you also seems to be going bad.
Your life is the result of the energy you send out.
If you spend the day thinking of all the things that give you reason to worry, stress, become frustrated, irritated, jealous, envious, angry, confused, unfocused, unmotivated, unloved, undesirable and unsupported then these are the things that you are willing bringing into your life over and over again on a wonderful cycle of everything you have sent for.
Sorry did you say it wasn't wonderful?
Thought's go far and create your experiences so if you know this and you know that then focusing on all you don't want brings all you don't want then what you are saying that although i don't want these things I can't do anything to change what I am getting.
Remember it is only your thoughts creating your reality so as long as you are focusing on all you don't want that cycle will keep going round and round and round and round and round.
Focusing thoughts on even one thing that makes you feel good with a million things around you not working but your only focus is going on what is good will change all that isn't going the way you would like it to.
So what is the secret? No secret at all, pay attention to your thoughts and feelings around those thoughts, if they make you feel bad then refocus your attention onto something that feels good and keep training yourself to do this in all a reads of your life.
You have the power, you have always had the power, learn to harness your power and use it to your strengths.